Stepping Outside the Box – I am Leaning Wayyyy Out Over the Edge!
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Here I am, pushing against the edges of my comfort zone big time. When I decided to create a blog, my first thoughts were about the quality of content and relevancy. Never did I give a thought about constructing and building the website. Oh boy, was I in for a rude awakening!
It didn’t take long to realize I needed to find a great source that could take me step by step through the process of widgets, tags, plugins, etc. After I found that source, I thought everything was cool. Well…not so fast there.
Keeping up with all the new information that was presented put me into overload. Of course, being a little OCD about things, I wanted everything to be neat and structured, all tied up with a bow. Doesn’t work that way. There isn’t time to sit and take things slow, technology is moving at the speed of light. If you don’t hit the ground running, you’ll be left in the breakdown lane. Needless to say, it was time to push against my limits. I was leaning wayyyy out over the edge!
Life Lesson?
Kinda reminds me of life. You can either sit on the sidelines, watching what goes on around you; or you can step up, get into the game and play alongside everyone else. Life is not a constant; it’s an ever-changing scenario. If you aren’t willing to open up to exploring new ideas, you become stagnant. The truth is you are either growing or you are dying. There is absolutely no age limit on learning! Learning is an on-going experience.
The great part is when you DO decide to step into it, you expand yourself in ways you never imagined. Circumstances bring people and ideas to you all the time. All you have to do is learn to be in the moment and hear the message.
I know, I know, that one took awhile for me to understand too. How exactly do you stay in the moment? By engaging in life – by talking to people, really hearing what they say. You never know what another person has to share with you unless you listen with your heart. It’s not the big AH HA moments, it’s the little aww moments that occur at anytime that count.
What are you going to do now?
A comfort zone is just that – comfort. No growth there, just more of the same. You can expand the edges of your comfort zone whenever you choose. That fear of the unknown can be quieted by simply taking a step, and another step, and another step. Every journey begins with a step. When you think you’re going to fall, reach out. There’s always someone there to guide you, if you open up to the possibilities.
So what’s it going to be? Are you open to stretching your comfort zone? I am!
Woo Hoo! What a wild ride. I’m lovin’ every minute of it. My heart is racing, my head is spinning and I’ve never felt more alive! Come join me, there’s room for everyone.
I hope you enjoyed this. I would love to hear your thoughts about comfort zones. Please feel free to leave me a comment below. Have an awesome day!
Absolutely amazing! Well written, well received and very much relatable, inspiring and fun to read!
Thank you for stepping out of your comfort zone and into blog world, you fit right in! I can’t wait for your next one!
I am proud to call you my tribe sister!
:O) {{hugs}}
Lyn-Dee Eldridge
http://www.lyn-dee.com
Lyn-Dee Eldridge´s last blog ..red nose day, http://www.digitalrednose.com
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Twitter: jeannash
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how awesome is this Val,
a great job of explaining this,
it is so true, we need to step out of the box, or our comfort zone,
it is such a great feeling when you do
jean´s last blog ..“Attraction Marketing”
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 16th, 2010 at 7:37 pm
Jean,
I appreciate your comments. Thanks for your support.
Love & hugs,
Val
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Lyn-Dee,
Thanks so much for your supportive words. From one Tribe Sister to another.
Love & hugs,
Val
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Val, I think it’s a great accomplishment publishing your first blog. Congratulations. Love your comment of living on the edge!
Phil Jackson´s last blog ..Online Marketing Classes Series – A Framework for Learning Online Marketing
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 16th, 2010 at 9:34 pm
Thanks so much Phil. I was joking about the edge to Lyn-Dee and decided to use it.
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Way to step out on that ledge…Your blog looks incredible and it’s just the beginning…Glad you are a tribe mate
cheers Val
Nick Logan´s last blog ..By: Nick Logan
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 17th, 2010 at 5:19 am
Thanks so much for the encouragement. I am honored to work with the Tribe.
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Hi Val,
Congratulations on your awesome blog! I know how you feel when first putting yourself out there in the online world. So much to learn and it can move very fast! You are doing great and taking it step by step in your own time. Way to go past your comfort zone and thanks for sharing!
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 17th, 2010 at 5:22 am
Jennifer, I appreciate you encouragement. I will learn from all of you in the Tribe. Thanks for your support.
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Well said Val. The work you put into this website shows…it’s very nice. Thanks for sharing the ride with me. It is a wild ride but it’s so worth it! When are we going to Chicago?!!!
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 17th, 2010 at 8:46 am
Jennifer, thanks for the support. I have tons yet to learn and it’s a blast doing it!
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Awesome Val!
A great message. One that you know already but need to be reminded of often. Thank you!
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 17th, 2010 at 8:48 am
Angelina, I so appreciate your support. I really found this to be true lately.
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Val, not only did you take the first step of writing your first blog, but you did it in style.
Your writing is interesting and compelling. I was captivated right to the end.
Thanks for sharing these truths and your insights. You’ll do beautifully,
Sandy
Sandy Abrams´s last blog ..Soy may reduce diabetes risk in overweight women
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 17th, 2010 at 8:18 pm
Thanks so much for the encouraging words Sandy.
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There are so many things in life that repeat over again and again, but it is our choice what we choose to do afterward. I myself was stuck in the same path for a while, but it was a wonderful feeling when my eyes opened. I am definitely not saying that I know it all, there will always be so many lessons in life to learn. It is nice to know that there are people that feel as if they too can grow and will share with others.
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 17th, 2010 at 8:19 pm
So true Ty, so true. Thanks for your comments.
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Val,
You are so right. When you are in your comfort zone you are not growing.
I think everybody gets kind of overwhelmed when they first set up their website. But it is so much fun, I think. I love to learn something new. It is very exciting.
I love your writing style. Thanks for sharing this information.
Jaden Daniels´s last blog ..Managing Your Tasks
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 18th, 2010 at 8:17 am
Jaden,
I appreciate your support. No sitting inside my comfort zone. Time to take that step!
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Hey Val, Great post!
I can really identify with wanting to get it perfect… but I’m still trying to figure it out! lol!
You pushed beyond your comfort zone and got the results! Congratulations… nicely done!
Chris
Chris McCargar´s last undefined ..If you register your site for free at
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 18th, 2010 at 8:15 am
Thanks so much Chris. Steep learning curve and I’m lovin’ every moment of it!
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Twitter: caraballo12345
says:
If you are not out of your comfort zone, you are not growing and if you are not growing, you are shrinking (mentally, emotionally, etc.)
You are right on the money.
Keep up the great work!
Jose H. Caraballo´s last blog ..The Biggest Problem Credit Counseling Agencies (Part 1)
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 18th, 2010 at 8:54 pm
Thanks for your comments Jose. I am so lucky to have experienced people like you to learn from.
I appreciate you
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Twitter: christian_james
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Hi Val,
Learning new things can be very overwhelming for all of us but like you said you can either jump in and get your feet wet or sit on the sidelines and watch as a spectator. Leaders like yourself never see life as a spectator sport. Keep up the great work.
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 22nd, 2010 at 8:41 am
Christian,
I appreciate your comments. Life is so much richer when you’re willing to step up and give it your all. Have a wonderful day!
Thanks,
Val
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Oh Val, I smiled all the way through
this article. It is so wonderful to be
around people who are truly getting exited
about their lives (as you know!)
This is going to be a fun
and regular stop for me friend
Robin Lynn Brooks´s last blog ..PAIN FREE -Book Review
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 22nd, 2010 at 8:51 am
Robin,
I appreciate your support. I am so glad we have connected through this awesome Tribe.
Thanks and have anawesome day,
Val
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Val,
I detect a NEW woman emerging here!!! Great job and so fun to read. The best part is, it is truth and that shall set you free. You certainly sound FREE to me! Thanks for the inspiration and the time and effort your put forth and the growing you acheived.
Love you girl! Looking forward to visiting here often and perhaps I may have to jump out of my comfort zone, too. Thank You!!
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 22nd, 2010 at 10:03 pm
Peggy, my dear friend
I am having the time of my life! I am so blessed to have you in my life, you add so much for me.
I will be there for you the moment you need me, go for it! Learning to fly…remember the Edge.
Love, Val
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You write in such a good way. I feel like I’m there with you. =) Thanks for the reminders!
Malin Berdette´s last blog ..Wanted: curious people!
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 23rd, 2010 at 9:18 am
Malin,
Thanks for being a wonderful supporter and friend.
Love you,
Val
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Hi Val, great website!! better than mine!
you doing a great job here and i will be keeping a close eye on this site, bringing good to the world. x
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 24th, 2010 at 5:32 pm
Ross,
I appreciate you stopping by. No comparing now
Thanks,
Val
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You are doing an awesome job. Thank you for the suppost you give. You are a true part of the tribe.
Bill
Bill Hartman´s last blog ..Discovering My Passion
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
February 26th, 2010 at 4:03 pm
Bill,
We all support each other in life. It makes it all worthwhile.
Thanks so much!
Val
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Val,
Love this post!
Here’s to our heads spinning together!
Take care,
Becca
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
March 2nd, 2010 at 9:19 am
Becca,
Thanks again and again. You are an awesome, supportive member of the Tribe. I am honored to know you,
Val
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I agree to Val’s response to James comment that life is so much richer when you are willing to step up and give it your all. There is nothing wrong if you try because that would lead to success especially if have enough courage and if you think positively.
Great post Val, meaning your blog is interesting because you see people commenting or interacting with each other.
Phil
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
March 8th, 2010 at 8:41 am
Philam,
Thanks so much for your support. I love interacting with people and hearing their ideas!
Val
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HI Val, So true and I really relate. For years I avoided the social media route as it means putting yourself on the line and taking a risk! So I didn’t but as you explained so well, things stayed comfortable but not much change. I finally took the leap and there is no going back now- bring it on I say!
Blessings
Yamuna Keller
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
March 20th, 2010 at 11:22 am
Hey Yamuna,
We’ll all support each other in steeping outside our comfort zones!
Glad to see you.
Val
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Twitter: Watt_Works
says:
Hi Val,
I loved your blog post. Very encouraging too.
I’ve recently given up the corporate life and the corporate pay check to set up a new business. I’m also leaning wayyyy out over the edge. Trying hard not to look down, and just hoping the universe is going to support my dream of helping people and organisations do extraordinary things.
I’ve also installed commentluv on my own blog, and hoping people will see what we’re doing that way too.
Anyway, you have a great blog here. Thanks for sharing Val. I’ll be coming back again.
Best regards,
David
David Kerr´s last blog ..Sir John Whitmore on the Value of Coaching
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Val valwilcox.com Reply:
April 10th, 2010 at 11:15 am
Thanks so much David,
You are following your dream! Cool.
Leaning over the edge is exciting. You definitely know you are alive!
Instead of looking down and hoping the Universe will support you, change the wording to “I am looking up and the Universe is providing all that I need to accomplish my goals.” Empower yourself through positive statements.
Here’s to your success!
Val
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